Since we're far away from family and friends, we've had a hard time finding a babysitter for the occasional nights when SK and I want to go out. After a weird incident with a previous sitter, we signed up for a sitter service that is a bit on the expensive side. The service does extensive background checks for us and provides experienced caretakers. After a few months of meeting a wide variety of sitters, we have finally found one that we LOVE and ESK feels pretty comfortable with. YAY!
Julie is a full-time nanny who is working extra hours to save up for a workspace for her striving-artist husband. When we come back home, ESK has been put to sleep, dishes are cleaned and toys are tidied. She also leaves a long written summary of the night's events, i.e. "ESK thought it was hilarious when I made her stuffed pig dance." SK and I feel comfortable leaving the house and have no problems forking over the money because we know it's going toward a great goal AND a great caregiver. I feel so blessed.
Spiritual GiftsAfter attending a church here in Portland for the past year and a half, we are finally becoming official members. (We tried attending a class last year, but couldn't finish the classes because of scheduling problems.) It is a very large church (1100 regular attendees?) which was very disconcerting at first, but since getting plugged into a small group less than a year ago, we've really grown to love our church community.
So, at the membership class, the pastoral staff shared with us their spiritual gifts, i.e. leadership, faith, mercy, administration. They asked us to think about our spiritual gifts and as part of our homework we were assigned the Wagner-Modified Houts Questionnaire, aimed at discovering our spiritual gifts. You respond to 125 statements on a 0-3 scale (0=not at all; 3=much) tally up your scores and bam: your spiritual gifts. It's kinda like a holy version of those YM surveys I used to love as a teenager. Some examples:
"People have told me that I have helped them learn biblical truth in a meaningful way."
"I have verbally encouraged the wavering, the troubled or the discouraged."
"Sometimes when a person speaks in tongues, I get an idea about what God is saying."
"I enjoy being called up to do special jobs around the church."
"I am single and enjoy it.
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My gifts (drum roll please): Exhortation (gift of counseling, comforting, encouraging), Hospitality (providing an open house and welcome), Administration, and Service.
Things that I scored low on: Prophecy, Tongues, Voluntary Poverty, Celibacy and Exorcism
I have to say, I knew I wasn't given the gifts of Voluntary Poverty or Celibacy. HA! Without taking the questionnaire, what do you think your gifts are?